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What do Curvy Women Want: To Exist?

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She sighed into the phone "Simply to Exist" figuring that answer would be enough she was quite challenged when he asked her "What that Meant"? Immediately she wanted to respond in a way that would of been nothing but superficial explanations for fear of isolating her audience. What is a woman allowed to say she wants and what is a voluptuous woman allowed to take in a world that goes out of their way to make sure you feel uncomfortable for being bigger than a size 4 or 120lbs. The fear of how would he respond bounced around in her brain making her eyes feel like saucers heading straight to space. The person on the other end of the line was a black man she had assumed he would know what she meant when saying simply to exist, is that not what is being fought for by minorities all over? As soon as she thought these questions the rhetorical nature of such assumptions became clear and she knew existence was not enough they were fighting for equality. That was why

Whispers In The Dark

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WHISPERS IN THE DARK Her words are few Yet you can hear her scars She was a light to the world, now she lives in the dark She loved too much and received too little She travels in dark places because her heart is too brittle She seemed Unbreakable until she was broken In her is a symphony of music but the lyrics are barely spoken He took away her essence with physicality She lost her zest for life and lives in a false sense of reality Drunken with the idea of freedom She endures the affliction Thinking she's powerless but inside she has the power to move mountains Her testimony heals the broken hearted and quenches their thirst like crystal fountains She stays in isolation fearing the human touch Thinking if she comes out of the dark she will lose her virginity Which is her security by living in obscurity Until she hears a voice of solace A whisper that is ointment to her soul That can take the brokenness and make her whole Because she stopped believing in humanity and the hur

Exploring Curvy Me, & My 5 Favorite Topics of Discussion.

Hello and Welcome to the Blog Site: What Curvy Women Want . Here we will discuss my experiences, observations & insight as a 36 year old curvy woman. Our goal is to focus on 5 main topics, & at times we will feature guest interviews. As the topics arise you can expect a venture into modern & historical issues which are culturally relevant to our specific area of exploration.   Our primary categories of discussion will be: Curvy Women Speak : Focusing on listening to, uplifting, & empowering the often unheard voice of the curvy woman Music to My Ears : Music Monday, Good Music & the correlating intersections of life. Curvy Women Fashion Tips : Fashion Friday & more Pillow Talk : Focus on Sex, & what the Curvier Person actually wants, needs, expects, & desires. Organic Living & Healthy Consciousness : Earth Loving & Healthy living, Discussions of modern challenges to a healthy lifestyle, Why it's ok to truly enjoy food, When